Isaac’s Well
An initiative of:

Singles Survey

Marrying in the faith is hard when your congregation is small and like-minded singles are scattered. Isaac’s Well is an online meeting place for Reformed Baptist singles who hope to marry, each known and commended by their own church. We want to build it, and we’re asking you first. Your honest answers shape what it becomes. It takes 5–7 minutes, and answers are anonymous by default: the RBNet working group sees them, never your own pastor or elders.

  • Anonymous by default
  • 5 to 7 minutes
  • Never seen by your own pastor or elders

Section 1 of 5

Section A — About You

Questions marked * need an answer.

Age range (required)
I am: (required)
Church situation (required)

Optional. Nothing loads until you press that button, and then the map draws itself from OpenStreetMap. We never ask your device where you are, and we keep only the words in the box above, never a location.

Have you used any of the following to seek a like-minded spouse? (check all) (required)

Section B — Interest

Questions marked * need an answer.

Are you currently open to pursuing marriage? (required)
If RBNet offered a vetted online network of marriage-minded Reformed Baptist singles — “Isaac’s Well” — how likely would you be to create a profile? (required)
If “Not sure” or below — what holds you back? (check all) (required)
What would make Isaac’s Well genuinely valuable to you compared to other options? (pick up to 3) (required)

Select up to 3.

Section C — Pastoral Involvement

Isaac’s Well is meant to be guided by biblical wisdom and accountability without being intrusive. Your honest answers here directly shape how it gets built. Your individual answers will not be shared with your pastor.

Questions marked * need an answer.

Which forms of pastor/elder involvement would you WELCOME? (check all) (required)
Which would make you LESS likely to join? (check all) (required)
Does knowing that EVERY person on the platform has been confirmed by their own elders make you more or less likely to join? (required)

Section D — How It Should Work

Questions marked * need an answer.

If you saw someone interesting on Isaac’s Well, how would you prefer to make first contact? (pick top 2) (required)

Select up to 2.

What would you be comfortable displaying on your profile, visible to other approved members? (check all) (required)
A small one-time fee helps cover costs and keeps the platform to serious participants. What seems reasonable? (required)

Section E — Events & Wrap-Up

Questions marked * need an answer.

How many other singles do you personally know in your church or RBNet circles who might use something like this? (required)
Would you attend an in-person gathering for RBNet singles? (check all that appeal) (required)
(Optional) If you’d like updates on Isaac’s Well — including when it launches — leave your name and email

Used only for Isaac’s Well updates; never shared, including with your church’s elders.

Anonymous by default. The working group sees your answers, never your own pastor or elders.